Using trauma skills after a fall

One recent morning, I was walking with a friend at Steinke Basin. We were so engrossed in our conversation I lost track of my surroundings. A rock jutting up from the trail tripped me, and I began to fall in slow motion. At first I thought I would regain my balance,...
Be the calm

Be the calm

I am what is known in the medical world as a “hard stick.” My veins wiggle ahead of the needle, so starting an IV and getting blood draws for labwork can be problematic. I deal with medical trauma because of this. About a year ago, I was at the hospital being prepped...
What I’m learning about anxiety

What I’m learning about anxiety

I recently committed to co-facilitating a one-day class on managing anxiety with my friend and colleague Mo. Since then, I’ve been taken on a scenic tour through my own anxiety. I’ve been aware that this is related to the class – I’m getting a chance to directly...
Using a scarf for containment

Using a scarf for containment

Social engagement is a powerful tool in working through trauma. We might schedule an appointment with a therapist and ask them to witness. We might reach out to a trusted friend and share. We might ask a loved one to hold us. Being around another human who is steady...